What Do I Do When I Can No Longer Care for My Husband at Home?
Reaching the point where you can no longer manage at home is painful, but it's also a moment for honest, practical decisions. You're not failing him — you're recognising that his needs and your capacity have changed.
Get a clear picture of the needs
Ask for a needs assessment from social services and a carer's assessment for yourself. These identify what support is available — home carers, day centres, equipment, or, if needed, residential care. Decisions made with information feel very different from ones made in crisis.
You're still his partner
Moving to professional or residential care doesn't end your role as his wife. It changes how you care: from doing everything yourself to making sure the right people do. You get to be his partner again, not only his carer.
Whatever you're feeling, you don't have to carry it alone. Caregura helps you keep care information organised and share it with the people who matter — so the right help can step in when you need it.
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